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One of the most common and troubling questions is how to look at children in a bazi chart... We look at children in a bazi chart by location and element. According to the location, regardless of which bazi card we are looking at, male or female, we are interested in the pillar of the hour.
The pillar of the hour is the Palace of Children . The element of the element is the Star of Children - I will write about it next time. Consider the Children's Palace. What can you tell about children at the Children's Palace? The Pillar of the Hour or the Children's Palace shows: 1. what the relationship between the child and the parent will be: with mom - if we look at the mother's bazi chart, and with dad - when we analyze the dad's bazi chart 2. The ability to get pregnant 3. The year, month of conception 4. The ability to carry a pregnancy to term - course of pregnancy 5. Outcome of childbirth - according to timing and norms or by caesarean section 6. Problems with conception 7. Problems during pregnancy - miscarriages, premature births, frozen pregnancies 8. Ways to solve problems - a good time for pregnancy and childbirth What you need pay attention when analyzing the Children's Palace ? Elements of the elements in the pillar of the hour 1. Analyze the elements of the elements in the pillar of the hour
It is desirable that the elements of the hour pillar be favorable for a particular person according to the elements
Element of Personality - Ding ( yin fire). In the earthly branch of the hour there is Yin ( tiger). Yin is a tree . The tree supports the element of Personality Din丁 (yin fire). This is a favorable interaction for a person, indicating that the relationship with the child will be trusting, happy, joyful and supportive.
Interactions of the Pillar of the Hour and the Pillar of the Day
1. The earthly branch of the Yin 寅 (tiger) hour and the earthly branch of the Mao 卯 Day (rabbit) form the fusion of the season. This favorable interaction for a person indicates that the relationship with the child will be harmonious and close. In addition, the Earthly branch of the hour Yin辰 (tiger) and the earthly branch of the Day Mao卯 (rabbit) form with the Earthly branch of the month Chen 辰 (dragon) the tree season - indicates that the child will be loved, understood, communicated well, and respected by all relatives human family Ding 丁 (yin fire).
The Heavenly Stem and the Earthly Branch of the Hour Pillar should not collide with the Person's Day Pillar
The earthly branch of the hour Yu 酉 (rooster) collides with the earthly branch of the Day Mao 卯 (rabbit) - such interaction of earthly branches can indicate a misunderstanding between a person and his child, conflicts in relationships.
3. The earthly branch of the hour and the earthly branch of the Day should not form a relationship of punishment, harm, self-punishment. Such interactions of earthly branches bring problems in relationships - misunderstanding, disobedience, conflicts, quarrels, disputes, early departure from the family nest; a child in adulthood may stop communicating or will not take care of his parents in old age.
Symbolic Stars 3. Analyzing Symbolic Stars in the earthly branch of the hour It is favorable when the earthly branch of the hour contains happy Symbolic Stars or Stars that support the Personality of one of the parents.
Qi Phases 4. They also talk about the relationship between the child and parents.
Examples of problematic birth charts
Example 1
Here we see the Demon of Destruction in its worst manifestation, it brings strong fears, some far-fetched problems, destructive thoughts. The Peach Flower in this card carries a tendency towards bad habits and some “wrong” pleasures. And even such a remarkable star at first glance, like the Noble One of the celestial unit, in this map brings the following characteristics: a person overestimates his strength, cannot think rationally. A person is easily overcome by anxiety, depression, and everything is not right for him.
That is, those spirits that characterize a person’s psychological state, his emotions, his attitude towards life, have a very negative influence in this map.
In 2015, Sheep Knife joined them. Against the backdrop of the strengthening Tree (useless power that brings restrictions, pressure, some kind of uncertainty), the girl committed suicide.
Example 2
In this example, we also see the Demon of Destruction, but here it has a different meaning - a person is able to calculate and analyze everything. At the same time, the Demon of Illusions creates in a person’s head his own world, a fictional reality. This is a card of Philip Budeikin, one of the administrators of the “death groups” on VKontakte.
Spirits and Demons are a very important part of the birth chart. They help to understand the psychological state of a person, the reasons for his actions. When a bad period comes, unhelpful elements, the Spirits of Good Luck will help a person get out, and the Demons of Failure will aggravate his situation and push him to take wrong actions.
Children
Children are the flowers of life, the greatest treasure and the most fragile.
What situations related to children can confuse us:
- When we already have them, but we don’t know what to do with them.
- When we don’t have children, we really want to, but nothing works out.
With the help of Chinese metaphysics, in particular Ba Zi - analysis of the fate map, both issues can be resolved.
- There is an opportunity to understand your children much better, help them know themselves, and guide them at the right time. So that they are happy, healthy and successful.
- And there is a chance to identify the cause of failures, based on an analysis of the cards of both partners, and receive very specific recommendations for actions and dates that will help solve this problem. In this case, it is also necessary to connect Feng Shui, since the energies of space usually duplicate problems in the Ba Zi map. Read more about planning children and conceiving in the “Love and Marriage” and “Health” sections.
Let's talk about the children we already have, and we have a huge responsibility for the upbringing, skills and values that we give them.
What questions are we usually interested in:
- What is his character, characteristics, and what approach to education should he choose?
- How to understand a child and establish relationships with him, reasons for disagreements
- What does a child expect from his parents, what kind of authorities does he have?
- How will he manifest himself in a social environment, in relationships with people?
- What does a child have abilities, talents, potential for?
- Which clubs and sections to choose to develop his potential?
- What teaching methods are preferable, choice of kindergarten, school
- Choosing a university, an education that will not be useless, but will actually be useful in life
- A profession, a field of activity that will bring success and satisfaction
- Possible health problems, periods of danger
The child’s Ba Zi card can answer all these questions, thereby helping parents make the right decisions.
Ba Zi children's consultation (up to 14 years) fully covers all of the above aspects. To create an energy map you need:
- the child's date of birth must include the exact hour
- city of birth
- gender of the child
To schedule a consultation, you must leave a request and provide the necessary information.
During the week, preparations take place, then the consultation itself via Skype, in which you can ask any questions you may have about the child. After consultation within a few days, I will send a written report for your convenience.
The cost of a child consultation is 6100 rubles. 100% prepayment after my consent to the card analysis. Sometimes, for a number of reasons, I may refuse.
I will answer all additional questions if they arise within 1 month.
A short excursion into children's BaZi cards using fragments of consultations as an example:
- Child:
Boy Yin water, already soft and gentle in itself, like drops of dew on the grass or a small stream with crystal water. So he has two more peach flowers in his card, which makes him simply irresistible, sweetest and most charming. He leaves no one indifferent. His chart has an Academic star and an Art star, which will allow him to be a versatile, intelligent, educated and very interesting person.
But the main thing about the map is that it is a Map of Following Self-Expression. This is an unusual card, not the easiest, but if you really follow it, you can achieve amazing results in life.
Such children need a special approach:
- It is vital for him to express himself, to do something, to create, to defend his position, and this is not always convenient for others. You can’t put pressure on him and impose your point of view, you don’t need to teach him to reason. It's just no use.
- We need to be given freedom of choice and taught to be independent. It's easier to express yourself this way.
- This is a lone wolf in life; a team is contraindicated for him and will only get in the way.
You need to love such a child! Don’t babysit, don’t patronize, but simply Love! Anyone and always!
2. Child:
His Ren personality element is Yang Water. This is the ocean, the seas, in a word, big water that does not tolerate pressure, values freedom, sees no barriers and stops at nothing. ⠀ If you look at the map in general, a large amount of land immediately catches your eye. Therefore, land, and for water this is power, plays a huge role in the map. And the structure of the card is precisely the wrong power (7th killer, aggressive power). This gives a person courage, determination, and a reluctance to live by someone else’s rules and stereotypes. He is his own commander, and he has his own laws. Can easily solve any non-standard problem.
"Boss Star" or Kuigang in the pillar of the day. First of all, it means inner strength, leadership qualities, rigidity, intolerance, power. Although in appearance they often give the impression of being calm and peaceful creatures. But as soon as a threat (even just an illusion) looms on the horizon for him or his loved ones, Kuigang will manifest himself in all his power, and he is terrible in anger. It can behave absolutely unpredictably, which is why this star is compared to the “devil in a snuffbox”. Everything seemed to be fine, and then bam, and you don’t even understand what hit the person.⠀
If you noticed, the card contains a triple duplication of very similar characteristics - perseverance, determination, courage, power (kuigang, Yang water, structure of the 7th killer). I think the line of behavior in life is generally clear. This is very good, because there is no hesitation, a person knows what he wants and achieves it. ⠀ And the baby definitely has every chance to achieve great success in life, the main thing now is to channel all this power in the right direction. For example, sports, where he can show his character and fight to become the best there, and not in the family or society. You can't break it and try to remake it. He is a person, strong and persistent, you need to put up with this. ⠀ On the contrary, resources are very useful to him; water is very weak due to the strong control of the earth. Therefore, it is very important to give such a child warmth and comfort at home, family traditions, care for him, delicious food and a mother nearby. Since the resources in the metal will also be important, order, regime and discipline.
Ba Zi child
Each person comes into this world with his own abilities and characteristics. This is a divine and creative manifestation of the universe, an indication of what exactly can help a person open up and find happiness. And not only this. We are also born with our own shortcomings, imperfections and the future problems they generate. Everyone receives the necessary tests. Therefore, we should not be upset if there are “nodes” in our chart - periods when unfavorable elements dominate. They “help” us grow in a spiritual sense, create and shape our personality. And overcoming them gives us strength, impetus in the development of consciousness and new opportunities.
But often the opposite happens - a person falls under the influence of his imperfections and vices, and not he, but they begin to lead him through life. The saying “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree” appeared for a reason. It reflects the result of upbringing: children repeat their parents because they have no choice. From generation to generation, parents cultivate their vision of the world. Although, in fact, the main task of education is to delicately allow the little person to become himself.
Often parents cannot see this because they cannot see themselves from the outside. Ba Zi is the most impartial judge, since the map of the pillars always shows what really is.
The unique Ba Zi method allows you to see not only the abilities, talents and characteristics of a child, but also his imperfections - the reasons for future disharmony in his life. And what is very important is that we can learn about all this at the very beginning of his life’s journey. Usually, parents become aware of serious personality problems in their child when they have already taken root in him and reign supreme. But it is known that the most important thing in education is not to waste time: a child, like a tree, can only be formed at the very beginning.
For example, if your child is hyperactive, Ba Tzu will show you what needs to be done to release his energy or direct it in a positive direction. How to influence the formation of your child’s personality so as not to destroy the golden rule of Ba Tzu - the harmony of the 5 elements.
The method considers two important aspects of human life: Fate - inclinations and abilities and Luck - prospects and opportunities throughout life.
The method allows parents to shape the tree of life of their child consciously and carefully, just as a gardener shapes the crown of a tree, not allowing it to be drowned out by bad and diseased branches. The method is based on the theory of five elements - the basis of modern Chinese medicine, which has an unrivaled diagnostic system, and all the most important achievements of the East.
