Parent-Child Relationships
To analyze the relationship between parents and children in Bazi and the 12 Palaces, we look at how each of the participants in the relationship perceives their relationship with relatives, and whether there are any discrepancies in expectations. If the core of the problem is questions of discipline, we look at the influence of the spirit responsible for the orderliness of life, and so on. There are problems caused by the 10 spirit personality type. For example, if a child is of the wounding official type or has a sheep knife in the bazi as a rejected spirit and is in a low qi phase, then he will have difficulty fitting into the framework of submissive behavior.
Introduction
Marriage is a union of two unique individuals, with their own patterns of behavior, habits, and attitudes to life. Sometimes, even despite the desire of spouses to understand each other and live in harmony, this can be difficult. A man's and a woman's ideas about family life may be too different, and the stumbling points may be too elusive. With the help of the Bazi technique, or the Four Pillars of Destiny, one can find the basis of the conflict and eliminate its causes. Understanding what exactly needs to be taken into account first in a relationship, it will be easier for spouses to control themselves, preventing the manifestation of negative feelings. Therefore, in the practice of a Bazi consultant, the analysis of family relationships is one of the difficult and responsible tasks.
In marriage, two groups of problems can be distinguished: the first group includes problems related to the character of the spouses, and the second - problems of marital relations.
Personal problems include alcoholism, drug addiction, obsession with gambling, jealousy, cruelty, serious illness, lack of will, etc. At the same time, the marriage partner is often concerned about whether he himself is the cause of these problems and seeks to understand whether he can really help his partner. Analysis of the spouses' bazi can answer these questions.
The topic of conflicts in family relationships is vast: in-laws, extramarital affairs, finances, social life, parent-child relationships, life values, career, loneliness and much more. All the client’s questions can be answered in his natal chart.
Spouse's relatives
First, we determine whether the spouse’s relatives or the client’s attitude towards them are the problem. The information provided by the Spouse's Palace will help answer this question. If the earthly branch of the day contains the unfavorable spirit of error and surprise yin-yang, then it is difficult to count on support and understanding among the relatives of the other half. Many clients note a negative attitude towards them from their spouse’s relatives from the day of their wedding.
Sometimes it is necessary to help the client realize that he is complaining about his spouse's relatives because his relationship with his own parents is problematic. We can look at the client's relationship with his father and mother in Bazi.
The celestial trunk of the day stands next to the star of wealth and collides with it - the relationship with the father will not be harmonious.
Wealth sits on a sheep's knife - the father, as a rule, has a bad character, hot-tempered.
Wealth sits in the qi phase of building happiness - the father’s character is kind and simple-minded.
The star of the seal sits on a sheep's knife - the mother has a strong, persistent character.
The star of the seal sits in the qi phase of building happiness - the mother’s character is kind and simple-minded. If the star of the seal represents a functional spirit, the mother has a virtuous character.
