Love and creating a family. The influence of the 10 gods in the bazi chart.

Luan in the Ba Zi map

Red is the color of fire and passion, so it is not for nothing that the phoenix is ​​associated with love relationships. A person in whose chart this star is present finds a partner faster than others. For other people, he seems more attractive, romantic, attractive. Holders of the Demon of Red Beauty in Ba Zi easily adapt to a new society, quickly make acquaintances and, in general, are very popular with others.

Red Luan in Ba Zi

Since the Red Phoenix is ​​more powerful than the Peach Blossom, it should be sought out first. If the star is in a useful element, it will bring:

• success in love affairs, making it easier to find a soul mate;
• financial security;
• good career;
• sociability and ability to establish interpersonal relationships.

This works equally well in both women's and men's cards. However, you should not rely only on the action of the Red Luan: it can give relationships and marriage, but their success and mutual understanding in the family will depend only on the couple themselves. This also applies to issues of earnings and career growth: a person himself must keep what the magic star gave him.

Expert opinion

Melnik Dmitry

feng shui master

But you need to be careful: in addition to good luck in your personal life, the Red Phoenix gives suspiciousness and jealousy, so it is difficult for its owners to build stable relationships. Another option is that a person becomes too picky and, looking for the ideal of ideals, misses the chance to build a normal, strong family.

Love and creating a family. The influence of the 10 gods in the bazi chart.

When assessing personal relationships and the possibilities of starting a family, you need to separate issues of attractiveness and issues of compatibility.
Symbolic stars speak of attractiveness: Peach Flower, Red Luan, Demon of Beauty and some features of the card itself and the personality element. In fact, the person you like may be incompatible. The Chinese view marriage more pragmatically, as a long-term partnership. Therefore, you can hear shocking recommendations: marry divorced people, cohabit without registration, live separately, create marriages of convenience.

Search for a partner

Time is one of the important factors in Bazi. Some meet their soulmate early in life, some later. Sometimes it is advisable to wait, since by entering into a relationship prematurely you can receive temporary bonuses, but lose in the long run. And if at this time fortune in personal relationships is not with you, it makes sense to put efforts into those areas where you can get more productive results in life: career, training, self-development, money issues, etc. Another important point is that people may not be inclined towards family life in general, are in an unfavorable period of time for marriage, or are not ready for personal relationships when a favorable period of romantic luck comes.

During a period of luck, you can meet several potential spouses, but in the end, none of them will be interesting enough to start a family with. A lot depends on a person’s readiness for a relationship.

Compatibility Assessment

In Bazi, the concept of compatibility is different from the Western concept. It is important what qualities a potential relationship partner has. Bazi helps diagnose the situation in personal relationships and gives certain prescriptions, similar to medicine. If the structures are compatible, then fewer problems will arise when interacting as a couple. However, this does not exclude tensions and minor conflicts. All this is a natural part of family life. But if there is a serious incompatibility, then the problems can become more serious. For example, one loves freedom, constant change, change of environment, travel. The other in the couple prefers routine, a calm home environment and predictability. Will they be able to combine this? Some people hope that a person in a marriage will change, but this usually does not happen radically. This is similar to the base map, where the configurations of energies and structures are laid down initially and do not change throughout life. And the coming periods only weaken and strengthen certain aspects in the chart, but do not change the basis. If changes do occur, they will not happen quickly and only when the person himself wishes it, using his human luck.

It is rare for only one structure to dominate in a person. Usually there are several of them, and the more there are, the more versatile the personality.

When assessing compatibility in personal relationships, you can take the leading structure in the map as a basis. In some cases, combinations of the structures of both cards can create minor problems and tension in the couple, which can be overcome through joint efforts. In other cases, incompatibility can leave a negative imprint on the relationship.

For a quick initial assessment of compatibility, you can consider the interaction of the Celestial Stems of the Personality elements.

Good Heavenly Stem Combinations: Yang Tree

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Earth Yin Wood Yin
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Metal Yang Fire Yang
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Metal Yin Fire Yin
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Water Yang Earth Yang
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Water Yin
Elements of Personality with Yin polarity combine well with elements of Personality with Yang polarity.

When looking at compatibility in detail in Bazi, it makes sense to place emphasis on the 10 deities rather than on the Personality elements. Because such structures can give a more detailed picture of the relationship between two people. For more information on how to determine the main structure (deity) of a card, read the article: 10 deities - determining the main structure

In general, if a woman has a personality element of yin polarity, her chances of compatibility will be higher if the man has a yang personality element. For example, a Kwei woman ( Yin Water

) will pair well with a Wu man (
Earth Yang
), who is also the "Direct Official" in her chart. Another example, a man with a Yang Metal personality element and a woman with a Yin Wood Personality element will also have a good chance of being compatible as a spouse, since, in a man’s chart, the Yin Tree is “Direct Wealth”.

In case of compatibility, for example, you can look at how strong the element of a man’s personality is to keep his wife (“Direct Wealth”) in the chart. And in the women's chart - how much a person is ready to obey her husband (“Direct Official”). They also evaluate how compatible the deities in one card are with the deities in the other in a given pair, useful elements and other techniques.

Combinations of specific elements have their own characteristics, and for example, if a man of Yang metal can interact well with a woman of Yin fire, then a man of Yin earth will be less harmoniously combined with a woman of Yang water (which is “Direct Wealth” in his chart) due to the properties of these elements. But this is a topic for a separate article.

Returning to the structures or 10 deities, we can identify more or less harmonious combinations.

Conflict or “tense” combinations include

: Direct seal - Oblique wealth, Challenge of power - Killer in the seventh position, Oblique wealth - Spirit of pleasure, Killer in the seventh position - Direct seal Direct official - Challenge of power.

More harmonious or compatible structures include:

Brotherhood (Wealth Robber) - Challenge Power (Spirit of Delight), Direct (Oblique) Wealth - Direct Official (7 Assassin), Direct Seal - Direct Official Direct Seal - Brotherhood

Of all 10 deities, the Brotherhood and Wealth Robber structures fit most easily with all the other structures in the area of ​​personal relationships, with a few exceptions.

Poor compatibility does not mean that a couple should break up. Rather, this suggests that partners need to take into account each other’s personality traits, find ways to compromise, and a flexible approach in order to make the relationship more harmonious even with tense aspects. Although sometimes, very rarely, the incompatibility is so significant that it is better to end the relationship.

Let's look at the example of a couple: From the example it is clear that there is a harmonious combination of Personality elements: Yang water - Yin fire, the so-called combination of “loyalty”. In terms of structures, “Correct Power” (Direct Official) dominates in the men’s chart, and “Challenge the Authority” dominates in the women’s chart. Despite the combination in the heavenly trunks, there may be tension and conflicts in the couple: The man, according to the structure, prefers to adhere to rules and routines, is attentive to what others think about him and tries to maintain harmonious relationships and diplomacy. A woman likes to attract attention to herself, does not tend to adhere to rules, is a more creative person who does not like to limit herself to boundaries. A challenge to authority may criticize others, but the Direct Official avoids criticism and does not like it towards himself. Officials prefer not to “rock the boat” in family relationships, and people with Challenge to Authority can add arguments in family disputes and go into conflict to add spice to relationships. The official may keep silent about the problem, and the Call to the authorities may not realize that something is bothering the Official and think that everything is in order. This can lead to a certain number of unresolved problems in the long term. If you look further, the “Wealth Robber” in a man and the “Propensity for Wealth” in a woman, also manifested, will add additional nuances to the interpretation of the couple’s compatibility. The combination “Wealth Robber” - “Addiction to Wealth” is also not easy for the sphere of romance.

Absence of the spouse element in the bazi chart

The absence of any element introduces an imbalance into the bazi chart as a whole. If there is no spouse element in the bazi chart, then first of all you need to check whether there is a spouse element in the hidden heavenly trunks and what quality it is. If it is not there, then this means that there is no connection with this element. The personality element in the chart is not "receptive" to it. As a result, a person may not be interested in personal relationships at all, difficulties arise in finding a partner, and in the case of marriage, relationships are not built ideally. For some men, this may manifest itself as Don Juanism, since there is no attachment to one woman. Another problem can arise when spouses live together, but there is no close emotional connection between them.

Since for a woman the spouse element also means Power and Career, in its absence problems may arise at work and in building a career, especially during unfavorable periods of luck.

In turn, men also face a double problem. The spouse element means money, Wealth and if it is weak or absent, then there may be difficulties in earning money. In the absence of the wife element, it may be difficult for a man to find a spouse and maintain a relationship, but due to his financial status he cannot attract women, since he is limited in money.

The absence of the spouse element does not mean that a person will not marry. This is an indication that more effort will be required to find a partner and maintain a long-term relationship. That the choice will not be too large and you need to be less picky. In some cases, arranged marriage with the help of a marriage agency may be an acceptable option. Also, certain periods enhance romantic luck, and it makes sense to take advantage of this.

“Wealth Robber” in a man’s chart and personal relationships

When the chart deals with the issue of personal relationships, one of the stars (deities) that is important for both sexes in addition to the spouse's star is the "Wealth Robber" star.

When this star dominates the chart, it noticeably begins to influence the quality of personal or family relationships for men. Not only the character traits associated with this star are important, but also the influence of groups of people who are associated with it.

Technically, from the point of view of Wu Xing (the interaction of the elements), the “Wealth Robber” is opposed to the star Direct Wealth, which in the male chart corresponds to the element of the spouse.

This star may give a tendency to put friends first, above the interests of the spouse and family.

The "wealth robber" represents in a person's chart his personal friends and acquaintances. As a result, instead of spending time with his family and wife, a man will prefer to go out with friends, especially if "Wealth Robber" is a useful element in the chart. He is always ready to respond to the requests and problems of friends, but he may lack the sense of responsibility that he needs to help his wife when she has problems.

Also, if this star is dominant, the man may have financial problems, or he lives on credit and is beyond his means, he likes to “spend money”. This can be an obstacle to creating relationships and a family, since there is no means to support it. From the bazi point of view, in this case, the “Wealth Robber” * potentially suppresses the Wealth star or it is weak initially. And since this is also the element of a wife for a man, the relationship will be influenced in any case.

“Wealth Robber” is a unique star, as it represents a wide range of friends and partners, as well as competitors and rivals in life. This is especially true for protecting the spouse’s element. Thus, if this star is dominant in the chart, it may mean that competition is prevalent in the person's life. Everything a person tries to achieve or achieve in life happens in a highly competitive environment, including matters of the heart. And a situation arises where romantic relationships are under a negative influence because it is necessary to “win” in competition, but it is also difficult for a man to develop and maintain relationships, since he is too “busy” with friends, and friends can be of both sexes.

A man can easily establish contacts with the opposite sex, since the star of “Wealth Robber” gives popularity and attention, sociability. As a result, a person can even get married, but when there are no real deeds behind words, life goes beyond one’s means, friends come first, there are no means to support a family - then problems in relationships and marriage will increase. If you do not pay attention to the characteristics of the dominant Wealth Robber in the bazi chart, this can become an obstacle to the development and maintenance of relationships.

Any deity has its own positive and negative traits and characteristics. In the case of dominance in the chart, it is necessary to consciously pay attention to the positive aspects and try not to manifest or control negative tendencies and actions.

In addition, there are other methods for assessing the element of the spouse, for example, by the flow of qi in the chart, taking into account the palace of marriage or the presence of Noble stars. In any case, assessing the possibilities of creating relationships and family requires a detailed consideration of the bazi chart, and the missing element is just one of the factors considered.

Luan under collision

It seems that having such a star is very attractive. She gives all the blessings of the world, you just need to prepare a shovel to row them. But this doesn't always work. The demon of red beauty in Ba Zi is vulnerable and does not react well to influence. If a collision occurs, attractiveness and romance are destroyed, it is difficult for a person to meet people and look for a partner.

But there is no need to despair, there are tricks that will help you establish communication with the outside world. It is necessary to choose special time periods for dating or doing business, during which the star is reliably protected and works at full capacity.

Star of encouragement and celebration

The Star of encouragement and celebration is revealed in Ba Tzu. This energy can instill in a person confidence in a better future. And if it comes with tact, it improves reality so much that life is perceived as a continuous streak of luck.

Contents of the brochure: How does the Star of Promotion and Holiday help? Identifying the Star of encouragement and celebration Increasing good luck and feelings of happiness

Punishment and luan

When punishment appears, Red Luan works exactly the opposite. A person tries to make acquaintances, build friendships or romantic relationships, but this does not bring any results. There may not even be an external reason, but people refuse to make contact. The owner of the luan becomes scandalous, begins to sort things out, or is used for personal gain. Such interpersonal interaction will not bring any benefit; the person will remain disappointed.

Wizard of Love - Red Phoenix

An energy called the Red Phoenix is ​​revealed in Ba Tzu. She is tenacious and can be reborn even if she was destroyed. The presence of the Red Phoenix in the pillars of destiny or its appearance with a new tact gives a person attractiveness. But these are not all the qualities of Phoenix. He is able to connect with an invisible thread a man and a woman, a person and his place of residence or work. By using Phoenix energy correctly, you can make your life stable.

Brochure Contents: What is the Magician of Love? How to identify Red Luan? Under what conditions does the Red Phoenix collapse? What is Lonely Luan and how does it affect? The red phoenix connects a man and a woman forever. The red luan connects two friends and business partners forever. The red luan is able to connect a person with his place of residence and work.

Luan in the unhelpful element

A red beauty demon located in an unwholesome element will not bring love or happiness to the owner. Failures in romantic relationships should be expected, and serious health problems requiring surgery are possible.

Everything in the world is ambiguous and dual, and the phoenix is ​​a direct confirmation of this. It is capable of giving all the joys of life, but if the circumstances are unfortunate, it works against the owner, mercilessly depriving him of success and convincing him of his own ill-being. Therefore, the main thing is to determine not only the presence of a star, but also its features, after which you can build a strategy for correctly using the capabilities of the Red Luan and live happily.

Noble of heavenly unity

In all matters, a person is helped by the Noble One of heavenly unity. This symbolic star is capable of eliminating problems of any kind, because it inhibits the influence of destructive “deities.” This energy can attract luck, health, love and money into everyday life.

Contents of the brochure: How does the Noble One of Heavenly Unity help? How to determine the Noble Celestial Unit? The star of a noble man is a guardian angel. If a Noble Man is not useful to a person. In what cases does a Noble Man help?

Peach blossom attracting love

The magical energy, called the Peach Blossom in Eastern astrology, can attract love. If there is Peach color in the pillars of fate or when this energy appears in tact, a person is able to find a soul mate. You can bring the moment of meeting your loved one closer by manipulating the energy of the Flower of Love.

Brochure Contents: What is Peach Blossom? Peach blossom, identified by personality element Peach color, identified by day or year of birth How to attract and hold love?

Red Beauty Demon

The demon of beauty can be extremely useful for a person who has lost someone, has become disillusioned with life and those close to him. If life is hard, you can’t see anything good in the world and you feel depressed all the time, you should identify your Bird of Illusions and arrange your bedroom in the sector of this energy.

Contents of the brochure: What is this symbolic star? How to identify the Red Bird? When does the Demon of Beauty strengthen and weaken? How does the Red Bird manifest itself in life? When is Beauty Demon useful? In what case is the Bird of Illusions not useful? The influence of the star of illusions on relationships What talents does the Demon of Beauty awaken? How to use Bird of Illusions?

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The Emptiness of Ba Tzu

The presence of the Demon of Emptiness in the pillars of fate may indicate possible problems in life. For example, if the Ba-Tzu Emptiness is located: - at the hour of birth, difficulties with children are possible; - in the month of birth - problems with parents; - in the year of birth - difficulties in relationships with grandparents.

Contents of the brochure: What is the Void of Ba-Tzu? How to identify the Void of Ba-Tzu? What does the Void of Ba-Tzu portend? What cancels emptiness in Bazi?